Witness for Fr. Dave on behalf of Resurrection Parish and Staff
Given by Bill Reynolds
October 13, 2002
We are all gathered here today because of our love for David Baumgartel.
Fr. Dave has touched each of us in a deeply personal way, creating a life-long
connection that ties us with him forever. It is so good that we can all be
here together, to celebrate his Life!
My name is Bill Reynolds. I had the honor of serving Resurrection Parish
as the Executive Officer of our Parish Council for the last two years. Working
with Fr. Dave was a big part of that honor! The Parish staff asked me to
share some reflections tonight.
I remember the first time I met Fr. Dave. It was May 2001, and the Council
was having its annual planning meeting. We had all heard that our new pastor
was going to be Fr. Baumgartel, some of us knew of him, but most of us did
not know him personally. We awaited his arrival in June with anticipation
and a natural amount of wonder. He came to our meeting in advance of his formal
start as pastor, and immediately impressed all of us with
-his great spirit of openness,
-his natural way of being comfortable and welcoming
-and especially his great enthusiasm! He shared with us that he was so
very excited to be coming to a parish with a high amount of lay involvement.
Our hearts were joyful on that day as we got a glimpse of what gifts God
in store for Resurrection in the person of Fr. Dave!
Fr. Dave’s 16 months as our pastor were marked with enough challenges to
sideline even the most optimistic and energetic person! We faced several
difficult times:
Witness for Fr. Dave by Mary Ann McLane
My brothers and sisters, the Lord be with you.
Good evening, and a most gracious welcome to you all.
I am Mary Ann McLane, a member of the Resurrection parish family and a
steward on its pastoral council.
Faced with the reality of having to update his funeral plans, Fr. Dave
said to me about a month ago that “it’s going to be a blast, and I’ll have
the best seat in the house.” Our faith tells us he is truly here… we welcome
and rejoice in his presence as a sign of God’s fulfillment of his promises
to “wipe away every tear”.
Fr. Dave was faced with many realities in this past year as pastor here,
and the life lessons he taught me were in handling these realities:
Fr. Paul Mast's Homily - Vesper Service
Dave Baumgartel’s Wake - Sunday Oct. 13, 2002
Resurrection Parish - 7:00 PM
An old hasidic teaching states: “There are three ascending levels of
how one mourns: With tears – that is the lowest. With silence – that is
higher. And with a song – that is the highest.” Permit me to lead us
to the highest level tonight by singing the refrain of a song that I believe
expresses the essence of David’s life.
“She gives me love, love, love, love crazy love. She gives me love, love,
love, love, crazy love.” Words and music by Van Morrison from his album
“Moondance.” Vocal interpretation by Paul Mast. Inspiration by
David Baumgartel. The connection between those lyrics and David is the God
whose crazy love fashioned him into a priest so that he could freely give
away so much of that crazy love to so many people.
Think for a moment about crazy love. It’s more real then we allow ourselves
to imagine. An engaged couple have eyes only for one another, tuning out
anyone who passes by. Crazy in love with each other. A mom, worried sick
through the night about a child who is burning with fever. Crazy in love
for that child to recover. A dad, anxious about how his son will take the
loss of a championship soccer game. Crazy in love for the boy who will feel
hurt and need healing. A teacher, concerned about a student who is showing
signs of rebellion and apathy. Crazy in love for the one who needs mentoring.
Then there are your stories of experiencing God’s crazy love in the many
different ways David practiced it with you. Those of you who were sad had
that lifted by David’s infectious smiles. Those of you who were emotionally
hurt were freed by one of his bear hugs. Those of you who were estranged
from family and friends were encouraged to reconcile by his gentle words.
Those of you who were struggling with the devastation of cancer, the anxiety
of unemployment, the fear of an unfaithful spouse or children on drugs were
comforted by his crazy love style of care giving. Those of you stressed out
by taking yourself too serious were laughed back into reality by his red
tennis shoes, his conversational T-shirts and his hair styles for every season.
A priest crazy in love with his people.
Everyone of you was important to him. Everyone of you was valued. Everyone
who was in need of the gift of his crazy love was never turned away.
It was like he was programmed to market happiness. I don’t mean a Microsoft
Word program. I mean the Word of God who programs us to live our lives in
such a way that we make a difference for heaven’s sake. David Baumgartel
let the Word of God take root in his life in such way that the crazy love
of God schooled him in how to live his life in a way that mattered, in a way
that touched others with the crazy love of God. For that reason you will
not be able to think of him without thinking of the God who used him as an
instrument for tapping into God’s crazy love for you.
He was so good at giving testimony to the God who is crazy in love with
us. In this respect he follows a distinguished list of saints, evangelists,
apostles who modeled for him how to be a Christian witness. Peter was such
a model for David.
In the reading from Acts, chapter 10, verses 34-43 St. Peter gives testimony
to how Jesus and the holy Spirit broke into human history and changed it forever.
This is the converted Peter witnessing to the people about Jesus dead and
risen. This is the Peter beyond fear, beyond denial, beyond abandoning Jesus
on the cross. This is the Peter who is free of all those demons by the crazy
love of God who used Jesus of Nazareth and the holy Spirit to turn him into
a crazy preacher of how the love he encountered in Jesus got into him, turned
his life upside down and through this witness that crazy love gets out of
him and into others.
After the death and resurrection of Jesus Peter had a new story to tell.
It was not about himself, but about a God so crazy in love with humanity
that he anointed his son with power and the holy Spirit to die and rise so
our story can continue with him.
So it was written, so it was done in the life of David Baumgartel, brother,
cousin, friend, priest, pastor, preacher.
There is a story about a wise Eastern master conducting a town hall meeting.
All the questions people asked him were about life after death. The master
never answered those questions. On the way back to the monastery one of his
disciples spoke up and said, “Master, how come you never answered anyone’s
question about life after death?” The master said, “Have you wondered about
those people who don’t know what to do with this life and they want another
one that will last forever?” The disciples persisted and said, “but master,
is there life after death or not?” The master smiled and said, “is there
life before death, that is the question.”
David would have appreciated that story because as all of you well know
he lived his life before death with no regrets. He lived it fully not for
himself but for others.
And he passed that good news on to you as St. Peter passed it on to the
people of Galilee. And the good news is that the crazy love of God frees
us to live life on this side of death with such passion and fire that it becomes
the desire and energy for more life with God after death.
Several days before he died I talked with David about his pastorship at
Resurrection Parish. I asked him to give me a one-liner which we can use
in remembrance of him. He thought for a moment then said, “it was the best
year of my life.”
People of God of Resurrection Parish. Cling to that one-liner. You gave
your pastor the best year of his life. Smile when you say that. Smile wider
when you say it with a T-shirt on. Smile even wider when you say it with
a T-shirt and tennis shoes. The crazy love that God had for David will be
getting out of you and into others.
Rabbi Abraham Heschel once said, “there are no proofs for the existence
of God. There are only witnesses.” I invite everyone here tonight to join
Hank and Eva, David’s cousins and the flock of Resurrection Parish to join
St. Peter and David in giving witness before death to the crazy love of God.
Let it be a song that you sing in your heart, a heart that tonight is heavy
with sadness and grief and loss. But a heart that will get free and light
and comforting whenever you sing, “God gives me love, love, love, love crazy
love....love, love, love, love, crazy love.” “Dave gives me love, love, love,
love crazy love....Dave gives me love, love, love, love crazy love.
And now that Dave is with God eternally no matter which of those names
you use to sing the refrain, both of them will be in your heart.
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