separation and divorce were not unknown among Catholics, the scope of the problem
and the alienation did not become well known until the late forties. In the
summer of 1973, Father McManus became pastor of St. Nicholas in
August 1974, Brother Leonard was ordained and celebrated one of his first Home
Masses for us in September 1974. This started a tradition of celebrating as a
community with a Home Mass followed by a Pot Luck Supper. Father Walker and the
President became active members of the Family Life Bureau of the Archdiocese of
December, 1974, Fr. McCab and a committee from
1975, SDC was still encountering reluctance by many pastors to announce our
existence and to refer hurting parishioners to our organization. Father
paralleling the events in
In February 1976, Father Vince O'Brien made inquiry about SDC. SDC invited him to come to a meeting and learn about the needs of the separated and divorced. Well he did, became interested in our ministry, and joined our cause. Since that time, Father Vince has touched the lives of each member of SDC in a blessed and beneficial way. He has been the smiling, accepting face of our Church for all of us. He is presently our Chaplain. Father Vince started a new concept - Personal Growth Groups, moderated by SDC members trained in listening and managing discussions, but not as professional care-providers. These members, the SDC Facilitators, have been the core of the SDC peer ministry ever since. In this tradition, SDC currently offers its "Separation, Divorce, and Beyond."
Also in 1976, SDC became a non-profit organization, registered with the IRS. We applied for and were issued a bulk mail permit with the post office and printed our own monthly newsletter.
1978, SDC had developed into the present organization. Membership has
fluctuated from the 10 members the group began with in 1971, reaching a peak of
approximately 500 members from mid-80s to early 90s. Current membership of is
about 150 members. In 2002, SDC incorporated in the State of
The key word in SDC is healing, and the aims are to assist each separated-divorced Catholic to become whole again in the love of the Lord and to help other Catholics understand the pain and suffering the separated and divorced have experienced, so that they will be able to help them remain active members of the Church. The faces have changed but the need and the ministry remain as vital as ever.
On May 2, 2012, Father Vince O’Brien began his new life with his Savior. More than any other person mentioned above or below, he was the loving face and healing voice of SDC. He taught us how to love and give all, let go and follow in his footsteps and his ministry.
Celebrants for the Annual SDC Mass have been:
Bishop Thomas Lyons, 1975-76; Father Vincent O’Brien, 1977, Bishop Lyons, 1978-79; Bishop Thomas Kelly, 1980; Archbishop James Hickey, 1981; Father Raymond Kemp, 1982; Bishop Eugene Marino, S.J., 1983; Bishop Alvaro Corrada, S.J., 1984-85; Bishop Eugene Marino, S.J., 1986-87; Father Kevin T. Hart, 1988; Bishop Leonard J. Olivier, 1989-90; Father Godfrey Mosley, 1991; Father Ronald Jameson, 1992; Father Vince O’Brien and Father William Cleary, 1994; Father Jameson, 1995; Bishop Alvaro Corrada, S.J., 1996; Bishop William Lori, 1997; Father Cary Hill, 1998; Rev. Raymond East, 1999; Fathers Vince O’Brien and Michael Blackwell, 2000-03; Father Michael Blackwell, 2004; Bishop Leonard J. Olivier, 2005-06; Archbishop Donald Wuerl, 2007 .
Fr. Eamon McManus, 1971-76; Fr. Leonard Walker, SDS, 1974-76; Fr. Vincent O'Brien, S.J., 1976-2012; Fr. William Cleary, 1979-90, 1994-97; Fr. Charles McCann, 1977-78; Rev. Mr. Jack Hamilton, 1970-98; Fr. Joseph Koury, S.J., 1983; Fr. Francis Murphy, 1984-87; Fr. Eamon Dignan, 1987; Fr. Ray Schmidt, 1985-89; Fr. Walter Lawrence, 1988-90; Rev. Mr. Joe Interlandi, 1995-99, Father Michael Blackwell, archdiocesan chaplain, 1996-present; Deacon David Barnes, 1999-present; and Monsignor Maury O’Connell, 2014-present.
Presidents of SDC have been:
Delores Throwe, 1971-77; Arlene Drennan, 1977-79; Francis X. Ballman, 1979-81; Carrie Hansen, 1981-83; Lou Martin, 1983-84; Celeste Peters, 1984-85; Fred Kopenhafer, 1985-86; Nancy Lynch, 1986-1988; Pat Taylor 1988-89; Betty Dawson, 1989-90; Joan Esser, 1990-92; Robertta Keely, 1992-94; Maureen Sandall, 1994-95; Shelia Spillman, 1995-97; Greg Becker, 1997-98, Ty Thomas-Fischer, 1998-2000; Peggy Keegan, 2000-01: Diane Fleming, 2001; Carolee Gearhart, 2001-03, Eileen O'Brien, 2003-04, Cathie With, 2004-05, Greg Becker, 2005-present.