Father Vince's Spiritual Reflections

As you move through your divorce experience you are aware that as you face your future, you will be called upon to act responsibly as you deal with life issues, especially your sexuality. Before Vatican II all that was required of you was to be obedient to authority. To doubt or question any of the teachings of the church was not allowed. Since Vatican II, the emphasis is on the human person, acting freely and responsibly with an informed conscience. You will be called upon to make decisions based upon a number of factors. First, be aware of the teaching of the Church. Second, be mindful of the gifts of common sense and intelligence that the Lord has given you to aid you in your decision making process. Third, listen to the movements of your heart; it speaks of your authentic self. Fourth, pray over your decision. Fifth and finally, when you feel at peace with your decision, GO FOR IT.

The Lord wants you to trust in yourself and your approval of your decision, because you are basically a good person. You are called upon to trust in your basic goodness and make your decision. And God trusts you. When all these things are in place, you are then moving in the direction provided by the Holy Spirit. Peace and joy and happiness will be there. So when all these factors are in place, make your decision and go for it.

Peace,

Father Vince

Father Vince O'Brien, S.J. is the Chaplain for SDC. He can be contacted at: Manresa Hall, 261 City Line Avenue, Merion Station, PA 19066 or (610) 660-1406.