February,
2010 – The New Spirit Of Confession
As a young
priest one of my joys was hearing confessions on my weekend calls to various
parishes. At that time in the late 50’s
and 60’s, weekly confessions were common for Catholics. But no more.
Catholics
began experiencing Christ’s healing presence through other forms. For example, individual counseling or
therapy, talking it over with a friend, and using the confessional parts of the
Mass.
A story will
illustrate a new spirit of Confession. A
friend of mine was in the hospital and a nun came to visit him. On her arrival
she was asked to see a priest for confession.
The nun said “I will be glad to get a priest for you, but first let’s
talk.” Because of her ability to be able to listen to my friend, he revealed
his soul to this person. When the visit
was over, the nun said she would get a priest and my friend told her there was
no need to do that since he had made his confession through her.
But she
objected since this was not the Sacrament.
Technically speaking that may be true, but my friend experienced the
healing and forgiving touch of Christ through his contact. Aren’t the
Sacraments designed to bring you in contact with the healing power of
Christ? So in some mysterious way this
nun may have provided the atmosphere, the mood that was Christ. Remember that the Sacraments were given by
Christ as a sign of unconditional love. This story illustrates the true healing
power of God.
Now that we
are in the season of Lent, we have the unique opportunity to experience the
healing presence of the Lord either through the Sacraments or other human
experiences. Hopefully you will be able
to experience this Sacrament through an understanding Priest who listens to your story without
judgment and you can go forward always with new hope.
Father Vince
Fr. Vince O'Brien, S.J. is the Chaplain for
SDC. He can be
contacted at: Manresa Hall, 261
City Line Avenue, Merion Station, PA 19066 or (610) 660-1406.